I've reactivated one of the memory usage displays which you should see on the lower-left bottom panel of the screen the next time your server is started. Note, however, this displays only the memory used by all notebooks under your server, not the global usage on the machine itself. For the notebook server machine, there is 192GB available RAM for shared use by all users. There have been a few times when kernels were killed due to out-of-memory errors, however this is rare.
Other resource monitors are being evaluated and will be made available after testing.